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Non-Scale Victories of Consistent Self-Care

2/26/2019

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Here is the biggest piece of self-care advice I can offer you: Throw away your scale. 

We've been conditioned to think that the number reflected back to us on the scale is somehow indicative of something important, but it's not - it only measures your gravitational pull, which actually has very little to do with your health. 

The number on the scale can fluctuate as much as up to 5lbs in a single day due to things like fluid retention, training routines, dehydration, quality of cumulative sleep, and sodium and carbohydrate intake. 

With so many variables affecting the number, you are not really giving your brain accurate information, which can not only be confusing and demoralizing, but it can also negatively affect your future behavior. 
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What about defining yourself by a different kind of measurement?

What about your heart, your soul, your compassion, your generosity, your strength, and your power?

If you neeeeeeed numbers to feel comfortable tracking your health and fitness journey, there are ways to do it without stepping on the scale. You can use blood pressure readings, or what size clothes you are fitting into comfortably (although, that can be another slippery slope, as not all clothing brand sizes are created equally!) You can compare how many push-ups you can do in a minute, or how long you can go between resting on hikes.

Or get radical and practice leaving the number comparisons behind altogether.

When you're learning how to love and appreciate your body, it's wise to acknowledge alllllll the different ways your self-care is benefitting you. To that end, I invite you to use the following comprehensive list to take stock of your progress instead.
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Adapted from the Whole30, these kinds of markers can and will have deeper long-term meaning in the grand scheme of living a happier, healthier life.

Physical (outside) 

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• Fewer blemishes
• Glowing skin
• No more under-eye circles
• Improvements in rashes or patches
• Less dimpled skin
• Longer, stronger nails
• Stronger, thicker hair
• Brighter eyes
• Fresher breath
• Whiter teeth
• Flatter stomach
• Leaner appearance
• Clothes fitting better
• Rings fitting better
• Less bloating
• More defined muscle tone
• Less joint swelling
• Looking younger
• Feeling more confident in appearance

Physical (inside) 

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• Healthier gums
​• Less stiff joints 
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• Less painful joints 
• Fewer PMS symptoms 
• A more regular monthly cycle 
• Increased libido 
• Less stomach pain 
• Increased “regularity” 
• Less diarrhea 
• Less constipation 
• Less gas 
• Less bloating 
• Fewer episodes of illness 
​• Shorter episodes of illness

• Fewer seasonal allergies 
• Reduction in food intolerances 
• Fewer migraines 
• Fewer asthma attacks 
• Less acid reflex 
• Less heartburn 
• Less chronic pain 
• Less chronic fatigue 
• Less tendonitis ​
• Less shoulder/back/knee pain 
• Improved blood pressure 
• Improved cholesterol numbers 
• Improved circulation 
• Improved blood sugar regulation 
• Improved symptoms of a medical condition 
• Reduced or eliminated medications 
• Recovering faster from injury ​​

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Mood, Emotion, Psychology 

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• Happier 
• More outgoing 
• More patient 
• More optimistic 
• Laugh more 
• Less anxious 
• Less stressed 
• Handle stress better 
• Your kids/friends/partner says you’re more fun 
• Fewer mood swings 
• Improved depression symptoms 
• Improvement in mental health 
• Fewer sugar cravings 
• Fewer carb cravings 
• Improved body image 
• Improved self-esteem 
• Improved self-confidence 
• Less reliance on the scale 
• Feeling in control of your nutrition 

Sleep 

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• Sleeping more 
• Fall asleep more easily 
• Sleep more soundly 
• No longer need a sleep aid 
• No longer need to hit the snooze button 
• You awaken feeling refreshed 
• Less snoring 
• Fewer night sweats 
• Less sleep apnea 
• Fewer restless leg syndrome symptoms 
• Fewer night cramps 

Energy 

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• Energy levels are higher 
• Energy levels are more even 
• More energy in the morning 
• No more mid-day energy slump 
• More energy to play with your kids/pets 
• More energy to exercise 
• More energy to socialize 
• More energy at work or school 
• You no longer need to graze on food all day every day 
• You no longer get as cranky if you don’t eat 
• You feel energetic between meals 
• You need less sugar or caffeine to prop up energy levels

Sport, Exercise, and Play 

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• Capacity for moving has increased 
• You’re consistent with exercise 
• You can exercise longer, harder or faster 
• You feel more athletic 
• You can lift heavier things 
• You hit new “personal bests” in the gym or your sport of choice 
• You recover more effectively from exercise or sport 
• You have the confidence to try a new activity 
• You play more with your kids or dogs 
• You’re more coordinated 
• Your balance is better 
• You’re outside more 

Food and Behaviors 

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• Healthier relationship with food 
• Reduction in disordered eating habits 
• Practicing mindful eating 
• Read labels, know what you’re looking for 
• Know which foods make you healthy or less healthy, energetic or less energetic 
• Eat to satiety 
• Listening to your body 
• Abandoned yo-yo dieting or crash dieting 
• No longer afraid of dietary fat 

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• Learned how to cook 
• Don’t use food for comfort 
• Don’t use food as rewards 
• Don’t use food as punishment 
• Don’t use food as stress management 
• No longer a slave to sugar and carbs 
• Know the difference between hunger and cravings 
• Fewer cravings 
• Healthy coping strategies to deal with cravings 
• More variety, color, vitamins, and minerals in your diet 
• Food no longer has unwanted side effects 
• No more food guilt or shame 
• No more bingeing 
• When you indulge, it’s deliberate 
• When you indulge, you savor it ​

Lifestyle and Social 

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• New healthy habits to pass down to your kids 
• More knowledgeable about nutrition 
• Shop locally and eat seasonally 
• New cooking skills 
• New recipes 
• Meal prep is organized and efficient 
• You’ve made new like-minded friends who support your lifestyle 
• You maximize your food budget 
• Spend less time and money at doctor’s office 
• You’ve created other health goals 
• Healthy eating habits have brought your family/social circle closer 
• You’ve joined a new community 
• People ask what you’re doing differently; people come to you for health, food, or lifestyle advice 

Brain Function

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• Improved attention span 
• Improved performance at your job or school 
• Improved memory 
• Faster reaction times 
• Clearer thinking 
• Higher productivity ​​​


And there you have it...

PLENTY of ways to measure self-care progress that have nothing to do with the blasted scale. 

​I love you and I'll see you soon!
xo,
Coach Alex
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